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Although Canada is avery multicultrual place, I’ve only seen two kinds of men dating black women—black men and white men. I haven’t seen any sisters with any other kind of man. Black women seem to do better up here than they do in the US. Its not that uncommon to see a black woman with a white guy. If black women are slim and pretty, the white men seem opened to dating us. One thing black women have going for them is if they do date a white man, the quality of white men that date black women is much higher than the quality of white men that date Asian women.

February 12, 2010 at 2:11 pm
Former okcupid black female dater says:
Yep. That pretty much sums it up.

February 13, 2010 at 5:37 am
David says:
I think I might have a somewhat unique perspective. I’m a black man in Japan.

For most of my life I ‘only’ dated black women and actually had little to no interest in ‘any’ women of any other race. It wasn’t a decision per se, I was just so into black women, that is who I pursued. Then I moved to the Bay Area, California and had my first date with a white woman, I was 24. Frankly it was strange at first, but I liked her, and we connected. I then tried to open up and date all races (asian, etc.) and I’m glad I did. I feel like a more well rounded person because of my dating variety.

Since that time, I’ve had girlfriends of all colors, but my main criteria is now intellect and raw attraction, the race thing is at the bottom of the list, if not meaningless (of course cultural concerns can pop up, but that’s a longer post).