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Three Ways to Build a Better Online Dating Profile
Is Social Dominance a Prerequisite for Female Attraction?
Israel Women Dating
We Found Love in a Post-Grad Place
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The 100 Day Challenge To Success With Women
Online Dating Misconceptions
Saw her again today and got to chat a bit longer than usual. Went very well. As I mentioned, only God knows if this is all a matter of timing or if I’ve simply been lied to in that ambiguous “no hard feelings” sort of way. Just trying to beat back the thought that this’ll somehow slip through my fingers. I’m sure other guys know the feeling – it’s really tough to want to go forward when you feel rather powerless. It’s unsettling to feel that you have to be the organ grinder’s monkey while the woman gets to control the guillotine. It’s a sense of stumbling through a pitch black room, half assured and half wary of breaking something, blind all the while.
This is more of a rhetorical question but I still don’t understand a woman’s sense of “letting a guy down easy”. Because they never actually do that. We know what they’re doing with the “it’s not you, it’s me” routine in its many forms and they do it for their own benefit, so THEY don’t feel like garbage, not to be kind to the guy. In that scenario, in the end, the guy sees right through it and doesn’t walk away feeling good but rather feeling lied to/misled/insulted et al.
Perhaps that a tinge of cynicism in me talking in the midst of my situation. I’ve got to look to God, and not to this girl or anyone else, to bring the right outcome to pass.
MidoriLei Says:
March 17th, 2012 at 7:51 pm
Jimmy,
I’m glad it’s all been working out! And I commend you for putting the principles of the articles into practice. I also want to commend you for wanting to do the right thing in your situation.
Now for your situation. I think any way you put it, it’s going to be hard to take for Girl A. But the golden rule applies here. Do unto her what you would have wanted done to you by the last girl.
5 Ways to Attract More Women with Your Online Dating Profile
Three Ways to Build a Better Online Dating Profile
Is Social Dominance a Prerequisite for Female Attraction?
Israel Women Dating
We Found Love in a Post-Grad Place
Why Did We Really Break Up?
The 100 Day Challenge To Success With Women
Online Dating Misconceptions
Saw her again today and got to chat a bit longer than usual. Went very well. As I mentioned, only God knows if this is all a matter of timing or if I’ve simply been lied to in that ambiguous “no hard feelings” sort of way. Just trying to beat back the thought that this’ll somehow slip through my fingers. I’m sure other guys know the feeling – it’s really tough to want to go forward when you feel rather powerless. It’s unsettling to feel that you have to be the organ grinder’s monkey while the woman gets to control the guillotine. It’s a sense of stumbling through a pitch black room, half assured and half wary of breaking something, blind all the while.
This is more of a rhetorical question but I still don’t understand a woman’s sense of “letting a guy down easy”. Because they never actually do that. We know what they’re doing with the “it’s not you, it’s me” routine in its many forms and they do it for their own benefit, so THEY don’t feel like garbage, not to be kind to the guy. In that scenario, in the end, the guy sees right through it and doesn’t walk away feeling good but rather feeling lied to/misled/insulted et al.
Perhaps that a tinge of cynicism in me talking in the midst of my situation. I’ve got to look to God, and not to this girl or anyone else, to bring the right outcome to pass.
MidoriLei Says:
March 17th, 2012 at 7:51 pm
Jimmy,
I’m glad it’s all been working out! And I commend you for putting the principles of the articles into practice. I also want to commend you for wanting to do the right thing in your situation.
Now for your situation. I think any way you put it, it’s going to be hard to take for Girl A. But the golden rule applies here. Do unto her what you would have wanted done to you by the last girl.